Let me preface this by saying it really is accidental.  I have had this "phenomenon" my whole life.
I know I am not alone in this.  I'm from Maine and have a "Maine accent".  Not the downeast Maine accent, nor the northern accent.  But, it is definitely there although I am losing it since being down in this area of Florida.
My thievery is of others voice tones and their accents.  For instance, my cashier at the farmers market has a very strong New Zealand accent.  While speaking to him, suddenly my voice thinks it too is from New Zealand.  I sound quite silly, but for some reason I cannot control it.  That man from Texas talking to me at the health food store?  I suddently have a Texan drawl...only we all know it must sound awful fake.  The New Yorker bagging my groceries at Publix?  You can guess how I start talking.
I also tend to pick up on the tones people are speaking to me with.  I will get very soft with a soft spoken woman, or very brash with a loud man.  Deep voice?  Me too!  I'm not sure why this happens, but I can remember instances from various periods in my life.  Maybe it's some weird insecurity in me, trying to fit in.  I really don't know.
Luckily, around my husband and son I talk in what appears to be my own voice.  I have the ever so slight southern accent developing, and I don't mind.  So, if you are talking to me and notice I'm beginning to sound just like you.....I apologize in advance.
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That's funny, though I can't say I've ever noticed it. Then, I usually don't notice my Maine accent!
I think it tends to come out around strangers and people I don't know very well. Not family ;) It is hard to notice your own accent unless you are surrounded by people with another accent ;)
My husband does this too- it's completely subconscious but it makes me giggle. :-)
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